Life can be complex with its ups and downs, ebbs and flows, and numerous challenges that stretch us physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.  The circumstance we encounter can impact our relationships, environments, finances and above all our perception and behaviours.

However, change and our circumstances do NOT have to be negative. 
It took me a long time to see my challenges, problems and circumstances as necessary lessons to shape me for the person that I am today. Don’t get me wrong I am still not excited to endure the pain and frustration that negative circumstances can bring. Some days, I feel throwing my arms up, taking the day off, and hiding to avoid the lesson. Trust me I have done that many times and realized it will always come back to hound me. 
Wayne Dyer in his book “You’ll See It When You Believe It”, says, “I no longer view the world in terms of unfortunate accidents or misfortunes. I know in my being that I influence it all, and now find myself considering why I created that situation, rather than saying, “why me?” This heightened awareness directs me to look inside of myself for answers. I take responsibility for all of it and the interesting puzzle becomes a fascinating challenge when I decide to influence areas in my life in which I previously believed I was not in control. I now feel that I control it all.”
Now that is a spiritual concept and lesson I have adopted and it seems to work. It is a mindset that my soul will grab onto and rejoice for it is the recipe that has made me stronger as a human being.

So how do we develop the necessary character to make our circumstances instead of allowing our circumstances to make us? 
Emmet Fox tells us that “you can build any quality into your mentality by meditating upon that quality every day”. If you seem to be lacking in certain necessary qualities, if your character seems to lack strength, ask God to give you what you need. 
And I always remember the inspirational words of Les Brown’s; three steps to take during “hard times”: 

                   1) Have Faith (Faith is the substance of things hoped for…”)
                   2) Remind yourself: No matter how hard it is or how hard it gets, “I’m going to make it!”
                   3) Have patience and engage in consistent persistent action.
A wise teacher once said to me: “What you become, directly influences what you get. As you think, so are you.” The secret then to overcome overwhelming circumstances lies in making a decision to grow and embrace that negativity. Easier said than done, right?  Let me show you in my masterclass ABUNDANCE: Your Birthright, the steps how to attract that balance we all need to reduce stress and overwhelm. Register here:

Instead of searching far and wide focusing on the external elements, spend time every day searching inside. Instead of expecting something from outside to fill you up, learn to fill yourself from within. Make a commitment to practice in discovering who you are. Make a commitment to get in touch with the Universal Intelligence and Unlimited Potentiality that is in you. Make a commitment to accept and create harmony with the circumstance you face now. It is worth it and it is easier than you think. Let me show you how. 
Feel free to contact or book a free call with me. I can introduce you to a practical tool I developed and other techniques that can reverse overwhelm or emotional challenges you face now. You can also download my free Mantra E-book. I have your back and I am here for you. 


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